A couple of questions about my 9 month old?

Try offering her just a little water at night. She is just used to you coming in. She probably doesn't need it anymore. Give her water, and maybe have your hubby do it, and it will be less interesting and she will just stay asleep. Don't worry about no teeth. Some babies don't get any until over a year - they are all on their own schedule and it does not mean anything is wrong.